If you’re looking for love, then listen up– Jaimy Blazynski, the Date Doctor is here!
It’s time for another round of Ask Jaimy, as the Date Doctor answers your biggest questions about love, romance, dating and relationships!
1. I received a break-up text from a guy I have been out with many times. What is wrong with these men? Do I have a right to be pissed off by his immature, cowardly behavior?
Men are actually afraid to tell the women the truth because so many women freak out and have so drama. Based on the language in her message, Jaimy senses that if he tried to break up on the phone or in person, he’d get a crazy reaction.
At least she GOT a break up– a lot of times the guy just disappears into thin air.
2. I’m chatting with a guy on Match.com and he writes back and forth, answers my questions, but never asks anything about me. He must be interested if he’s writing me back– right or wrong?
What’s so interesting about him? he doesn’t ask anything about you, he doesn’t have great social skills… why would you even be interested in him anymore?
3. I’m dating a great guy, however a friend of his from college– a girl, hot, big boobs– asked him to a wedding because she just broke up with her boyfriend. They went and she posted a couple flirty on Facebook. He tells me not to worry and I don’t want to look jealous. Advice please?
If Jaimy’s boyfriend had a best friend that was a girl and they were that tight, it could be an uncomfortable situation. The girls with the fake boobs and that dress a little trashy, you can’t always trust them.
4. How long do I wait for a guy to confirm a date? He said he tentatively had plans, but thinks we might be able to make it.
There’s no ‘let’s go out, I tentatively have plans, but I’ll let you know.’ That’s not acceptable– Find a day when there’s no tentative plans and make a commitment, because you should never be waiting around.