If you’re looking for love, then listen up– Jaimy Blazynski, the Date Doctor is here!
There’s a lot of confusion when it comes to relationships, new or old… Sometimes it’s hard to understand how serious something actually is. This week, Jaimy has some advice on how to figure out if your significant other really is “the one” or not… Check it out!
1. You can’t make someone ‘The One’
Women will say things like “everything about him is perfect, except he’s not that into me.” When you’re assessing whether or not someone is the one, part of the equation has to be he’s into you– it’s not one sided.
2. If you have to ask, it’s probably not true
If you need to ask the question, is he the one… he’s probably not. If you know he’s the one, you’re not asking. A lot of people figure as long as things are good 50% of the time, they stat together. But there’s so many variables it’s not easy to measure with any real accuracy.
3. What kind of an Ex will they be?
It sounds dark, but you need to consider what this person would be like post-break up. Take a look at the situation and ask yourself if it didn’t work out, can you deal with that with this person?
4. Take them at their worst
There’s a lot of things you will never change about someone, so the best way to consider the strength of your relationship is to consider your partner’s absolute worst tendencies, habits or behavior. Decide if you can accept them– exactly as they are, with all their flaws– and if you could live with it, you’re in a good place.