If you’re looking for love, then listen up– Jaimy Blazynski, the Date Doctor is here!
There’s a lot of BS surrounding “closure” in a relationship. There are some questions you need to ask yourself before you go back for more closure after a relationship ends, and she shares those important questions– and some advice– to help you get over it in the best way possible.
1. Haven’t you had enough closure?
If a guy lied, cheated, didn’t call or stood you up, how many more times can he send you a message saying he is out? Leave it alone– it’s over.
2. Are you just looking for drama?
Many people miss the drama of a relationship, because they get a rush out of the arguing, fighting and drama.
3. Is it a lame excuse to re-connect?
Sometimes an attempt at “closure” is really just a try to see someone again. This is not only counter productive, it makes no sense– it is time to move on, not try to regress to the past.
What do you think a guy is thinking when you try to get closure? He might be thinking you’re nuts and he just wants to get out– you may think you’re getting your last peace in, but you may end up looking like a drama queen. They guys don’t care– the best way to have closure is with yourself. When you say “I am done putting up with crap like this, I am not giving him any more of my energy or let him know he upset me. I am too classy a girl to let him see me fall like this.”